Family Banking
Benefits
The Family Bank
A shocking number of Canadians live paycheck to paycheck. Surveys show that 74% of all employees live month-to-month, and more than 25% of families earning six-figure incomes do the same. Why are so many people struggling financially? In many cases, the answer lies in poor money management and escalating debt cycles. The more you earn, the more credit you qualify for—yet interest and fees can erode family wealth.
That’s why learning about private family banking is worthwhile. Family banking is easy to fund, offers numerous benefits, and can help ensure you never fall into a debt cycle.
Debt is not necessarily a bad thing, as it can facilitate important actions such as buying a home, paying for college, purchasing a car, or covering health care expenses. However, the interest rates tied to traditional lending can drain wealth that could otherwise be accumulated for your family.
Private family banking can prevent this by allowing you to borrow funds from a whole life insurance policy you set up. This gives you access to cash when needed, without relying on traditional banks or other for-profit lenders.
Beyond protecting you from debt, family banking also offers several tax benefits and other financial advantages. Read on to discover these benefits and determine whether this strategy is right for you and your family.

THE ORIGIN
The Origins of Private Family Banking
Before diving into the mechanics of private family banking, let’s explore how this financial strategy began.
In the 1980s, Nelson Nash found himself in a difficult situation—overextended on debt and unable to build wealth due to mounting interest and repayments. At the same time, he recognized that borrowing money was sometimes necessary to build wealth.
This realization led him to develop what is now known as the private family banking concept, also referred to as infinite banking. This method allows families to effectively become their own bank, build wealth, pass it to future generations tax-free, and borrow “from themselves” (via life insurance policies) at essentially no interest.
His innovative approach gained traction through his book, Becoming Your Own Banker: Unlock the Infinite Banking Concept, often referred to by his followers as the "Nelson Nash book." Since then, numerous books have been written about creating a so-called family bank, making this method a widely used yet little-known wealth-building strategy.

HOW IT WORKS
How Private Family Banking Works
So, how does family banking work? How do you set up a family bank and become your own banker?
At its core, private family banking is built on one financial instrument: whole life insurance policies purchased through life insurance companies. Let’s examine how these policies work to strengthen your financial health and build generational wealth.
CATEGORIZATION
Funding a Family Bank with Whole Life Insurance
Life insurance is generally divided into two categories: whole life insurance and term life insurance.
Term life insurance
It is a type of life insurance that pays a sum for a definite term. Typically, 10 ,20, 30 years. Because it is neither a whole nor an endowment policy, no part of the term insurance accumulates or builds any form of investment component; it is used strictly as a method of offering protection.
Whole life insurance
Whole life insurance, on the other hand, provides lifelong coverage. Throughout your life, your monthly payments accumulate, giving your policy a cash value. This makes whole life insurance a viable savings vehicle.
Whole life insurance, on the other hand, provides lifelong coverage. Throughout your life, your monthly payments accumulate, giving your policy a cash value. This makes whole life insurance a viable savings vehicle.
Accessing Cash from Your Whole Life Policy
You can access the cash value of your whole life policy in two ways:
- Withdraw the full cash value once it matures—when your cash value equals your death benefit.
- Borrow against the policy’s cash value before maturity.
Borrowing against your policy offers several advantages:
- No loan approval process
- No credit checks or collateral required
- Access to liquidity without dealing with traditional banks
This system provides a tax-efficient savings vehicle while allowing you to act as your own banker.
Key Advantages of Private Family Banking
Private family banking offers several major benefits:
- Borrowing from Yourself—Effectively Interest-Free
- When you borrow from your policy, the insurance company lends you money from its reserves rather than withdrawing from your policy.
- Your policy’s cash value remains untouched and continues to grow with compounded interest.
- The interest you pay on the loan is offset by the continued growth of your policy’s cash value.
- Tax-Free Wealth Growth
- Superior Estate Planning
One of the biggest perks is the ability to borrow against your policy without paying traditional interest. While you do pay interest on your loan, the way it’s structured cancels out the cost.
Here’s how it works:
This means you can access liquidity without diminishing your wealth.
Unlike many investment vehicles, whole life insurance policies allow for tax-free compounded growth. Over time, this can result in substantial savings, allowing more money to be reinvested into the policy.
Private family banking is also a powerful estate planning tool.
Depending on your location and assets, estate taxes can significantly reduce the wealth passed on to your heirs. However, life insurance payouts are tax-free, meaning your heirs receive the full benefit without being subject to inheritance taxes.

WHO CAN BENEFIT
Who Can Benefit from Private Family Banking?
Family banking is ideal for individuals who want to:
- Build generational wealth
- Improve cash flow without relying on banks
- Gain financial independence
- Optimize estate planning and wealth transfer
However, it does require the ability to afford whole life insurance premiums, which are higher than term life insurance. With strategic financial planning, eliminating unnecessary debt, and disciplined money management, you may be able to structure your finances to afford a whole life policy.
Are You Interested
Interested in Private Family Banking?
As you can see, private family banking offers significant advantages, from interest-free liquidity to tax-free wealth transfer. Setting up a family bank using this strategy is straightforward and effective.
If you’re interested in learning more, there are many resources available on this topic, including courses and consulting services that cover the fundamentals of this strategy.
A team of experts dedicated to helping individuals achieve financial freedom through infinite banking can guide you through the process.
If you have questions or want personalized guidance, consider reaching out to a financial professional to explore how you can design your own private family banking plan.